Recently I have been wondering about the boundaries surrounding Christians and sex. As a Christian 20 year old, in a long term relationship, I often wonder how far is too far? And it occurred to me whilst talking to Christian friends about this, that really the church as a whole isn’t giving much teaching on the matter.
I’m not saying that it should in anyway be a big issue! But maybe a bit more of a concern in this day and age, how are Christians meant to know how far is too far? If they haven’t been told or informed. I am aware that the bible says a lot about sex before marriage but what about doing other things? What can you do?
In my search for answers I picked up a book on the matter of someone’s bookshelf, it was very negative towards sex before marriage, which I myself do belief is wrong, but it was also very negative towards other sexual stuff even within marriage, I would have thought that so called other stuff would be fine within marriage if not out with the confines’ of marriage. In fairness this is just my thoughts on the matter and I don’t expect people to agree with me, I currently am unsure where I stand on this matter, and would hope find out more in the near future if I could find somewhere to find out about it.
Any Thoughts on this matter?
